Kids Comfort

Children are forced to emotional comfort of their parents?

There is no law saying that children should be required to comfort their parents but some parents demand it of their children. Children are 11-15. The parents came home from work, cook, and have many problems with their life. They expect children to solve their problems for them and comfort them and children do not want. Parents believe that children are malnourished children because of this. I disagree. As parents, they must understand that it is unfair for children to have this kind of obligation. Emotionally comfort takes a lot of patience and youth should not be necessary for that. Parents must fend for themselves and so can not speak to a counselor and not wait for 11-15 children to be their advisor. These parents do not even have the comfort of their children when their children are confused, so why should they expect their children to comfort them when they are confused? It is unfair, no?

If parents have a hard time, it is up to them to ensure they deal with it, and do not carry the child to comfort them emotionally, whenever they are stressed to have a breakdown. There may be more emphasis on the problem such as depression or anxiety, the parent must work at it. Parents are supposed to comfort their children when they are not well or having trouble with something happening in their lives. Parents who are aged over 14 years have passed by the pre-teen, teen steps of life. Parents should advise children and be a role model for children. Children during this period are very influenced by what is around them. When children take care of their parents in this way is not good for the parent because they are not strong in themselves to be cope on their own, so they turn to their children and talk about issues. Essentially matters of divorce, and stress and anxiety. PS it are single parents out there. Why talk to a husband when you're not married?